A Personal Story: One Individual’s Success with ARFID using Hypnosis with Kelly

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About ARFID

Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) is a relatively new and often misunderstood eating disorder that goes beyond picky eating. Unlike other eating disorders, ARFID isn’t driven by concerns about body image or weight. Instead, it involves an aversion to certain foods, leading to significant nutritional deficiencies and challenges in daily functioning. While ARFID can sometimes feel like a constant battle, there is hope and success with support from a trained speech language pathologist.

Here is just one of our client success stories using hypnosis as a treatment option.

Meet Our Client: Matthew*

(*This client’s name has been changed for the purpose of this blog post to maintain confidentiality)

Matthew’s mother reached out to Kelly when Matthew was 12. He was a very motivated young man frustrated with his limited diet. According to Matthew, he had been “scared” of eating since he was 4. Prior to that, he ate a variety of foods and enjoyed them. While neither Matthew nor his mother could think of a “triggering” incident that brought on his fear, his food repertoire became more and more limited over the years. By the time they sought out help, Matthew was only eating 7-10 foods consistently. He usually ate cheerios without milk for breakfast, chicken nuggets and fries for lunch or dinner, and snacked on a few fruits throughout the day (limited to bananas, apples, and pears in limited volumes).

Going out to eat was extremely hard, traveling was miserable, and although he wanted to attend summer camp, he was simply unable due to limited food selection. He also was more hesitant to eat in social situations.

Matthew had attended a sensory based feeding program in the past without success. He would participate, but there was limited slow progress. He stated that there was “just something in my head” stopping him from tasting new foods. He had been evaluated by GI and there were no significant concerns.

These were Matthew’s goals that he discussed with Kelly:

  • Taste and try things without extreme hesitation.
  • Learn to enjoy pizza and pasta (even if it had to be modified).
  • Add some type of meat other than chicken nuggets to his diet.
  • Expand the types of fruits that he ate.
  • Add sweet potatoes to his diet (this was “veggie-like” for him, and he was leaning towards trying to work on this. Other veggies were really of no interest).

Kelly and Matthew agreed that his goals were realistic, as well as ambitious. He made all the final decisions about foods that motivated him while Kelly helped guide him to a few more things that would make life easier, such as obtaining the summer camp menu to identify foods he may want to eat and/or try on the schedule. After an initial evaluation, he and Kelly moved on to the first hypnosis session with prepared foods close by that he was interested in trying. After he underwent hypnosis, Matthew felt calm, relaxed, and was excited to try some new foods! Matthew reported that the voices in his head telling him not to eat were much quieter, and he felt more in control.

Here’s what happened: Matthew tasted each of the foods brought to the session. He described how each food item tasted, discussing flavor, texture, etc. He found some new foods that he enjoyed, and now felt comfortable working on progressively. There were still some foods that were difficult for him, but he even said, “I don’t get why I didn’t try this sooner!” about pancakes with and without syrup.

At the end of the session, Matthew was extremely proud of himself for tasting so many things calmly! His mom was in tears. Matthew and Kelly discussed a personalized and logical follow up to the session, including eliminating foods, adding foods to his meal rotations, and practicing with more foods based on how he was feeling.

After Matthew’s fifth and final session hypnosis session, he felt confident he could try a variety of foods fairly easily. He loved how he could taste and try for himself to determine if he liked something or not, and there was not an irrational fear in his way. He still had likes and dislikes, but he was in control now of his experiences.

Here were a few important factors in Matthew’s success when it comes to hypnosis:

  • HE was highly motivated to change.
  • His mother fully supported him, but it was HIS choice to seek help and “get better” (Matthew’s words).

Six months later, Matthew was able to attend a summer camp and loved it! He had added 10-15 new foods to his consistent food rotations and was still working on increasing this.

Many of our clients have expressed that it’s helpful to hear about and learn from other’s experiences, and it reminds them they are not alone in this journey. Read more about some of our client’s journey’s in Kelly’s book, ARFID Lived Experiences.

ARFID and Hypnosis

Every individual’s experience related to ARFID is different. Therefore, it’s important to find a speech language pathologist who specializes in treating ARFID and who can develop an effective treatment plan to help meet your needs.

Kelly is a Speech Language Pathologist who specializes in providing therapy and coaching from children to teens and young adults with feeding challenges. She prides herself on individualizing therapy sessions so that you meet your goals, whether that’s expanding your food repertoire, ordering something off a restaurant’s menu, or just appreciating your food preferences so that you can be present at social events.

Kelly uses a variety of therapy techniques, including sensory and behavioral therapies, as well as alternative therapy techniques, such as hypnosis, to help each of her clients find the success they’re seeking.

Contact Kelly at Food 4 Thought Therapy at kelly@food4thoughttherapy.com or visit https://food4thoughttherapy.com/contact/ to book your free consultation, get your questions answered and to take the first step towards your journey.

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Success in Feeding Therapy Beyond Food Expansion – A Journey with Me, Kelly

For individuals struggling with feeding challenges, such as Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID), the idea of seeking help to overcome their challenges with food can be both daunting and hopeful. That’s exactly why I started Food 4 Thought Therapy. I know that food success is about more than just expanding your food repertoire and my goal is to empower you and help you make the changes you’re seeking. I also believe that therapy looks different for everyone; I don’t use the same approach for every client because there is no one approach that works for every person.

One challenge to getting started with therapy is the number of unknowns. We all like to know what to expect, so I’ve decided to outline just that – here is how your journey can start out with me:

The First Session

Our first session together is all about you (get ready to talk openly and honestly with your therapist!). This first session, whether it’s with me or someone else, is about building trust and our therapeutic relationship. It’s important to trust your therapist while they take you through the next steps of your journey. We will discuss your medical health history, food dairy intake, whether or not you’re ready for change, what that change may look like for you, and how to tell if you’re really “ready” for therapy (sometimes we’re not quite ready for change yet! We can work together to help you become more “ready”). I will also just want to generally get to know you! This helps me understand you and your personality, so I can adjust our sessions to best suit your needs.

Identifying Hurdles and Setting Goals

Aside from this background information, we’ll also discuss foods that interest you, or maybe more likely, if NO foods interest you (and how we can generate some of that interest!). We will discuss some of your biggest hurdles – whether it’s fear of going out to eat, going off to college, holidays, handling pressures from family members, or navigating health concerns – and what you would like to tackle most in therapy. These discussions allow me to help tailor your personalized treatment plan to align with your goals.

As I mentioned, I truly believe that therapy is not a “one size fits all”. We’ll discuss options for therapy, such as food chaining, exposure therapy, diving right in, journaling, medical routes (e.g., testing or medications, such as appetite stimulants), and any other options that may be helpful for you!

Food Success Beyond Expansion

I firmly believe that food success goes beyond eating more food or expanding your food repertoire. It’s also about embracing “small” wins that ultimately lead to transformative changes in your relationship with food. Here are some examples of what these “small” wins might look like:

  • Seeking Help and Support: Acknowledging the need for change and reaching out to family members or professionals for support is a significant step towards progress.
  • Ordering Off the Menu: Trying out new restaurants and ordering off the menu, even with modifications, is an accomplishment worth celebrating.
  • Eating at School: For children struggling with ARFID, the simple act of eating lunch at school, even if packed from home, can mark a major milestone.
  • Finding Fulfillment in Snacks: Understanding that three small snacks can be as satisfying as a traditional meal fosters a healthier relationship with food.
  • Appreciating Your Preferences: Recognizing that having a preference for certain foods does not diminish one’s worth or normalcy.
  • Tasting New Foods without Anxiety: Gaining the confidence to taste new foods without stress or anxiety is a testament to personal growth.
  • Embracing Individual Tastes: Enjoying food in a way that suits individual preferences, even if it defies conventional norms, is a celebration of self-expression.
  • Valuing Nutritious Choices: Appreciating the value of foods that promote health and strength, regardless of their variety, is a crucial aspect of the journey.
  • Willingness to Explore: Embracing the mindset of exploring different ways to prepare foods rather than outright rejection opens up new culinary experiences.

I’m here to celebrate these wins with you, and ultimately help you meet your feeding goals, whatever those may be. If you’re ready for change, reach out to us at Food4Thought Therapy. Contact Kelly at kelly@food4thoughttherapy.com or visit our website at Food4Thought Therapy to book a free consultation.

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How do virtual sessions work with hypnosis?

Embarking on your journey to overcome Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID), whether that means becoming comfortable in your food preferences or expanding your food preferences, can be empowering. While in-person has been the only option for a long time, virtual therapy is becoming increasingly more and more popular and has been found to be just as effective as in-person therapy, even for hypnosis.

What to expect your first virtual session with Kelly?

Trying out something new can be a little nerve-racking; often, knowing what to expect can help reduce anxiety and stress. In your first session with Kelly, she won’t yet use hypnosis. You will focus on:

  • Getting to know each other – This is a very important part of hypnosis! It’s important that you trust and are comfortable with the person who will be helping you. This is also a great time to become more comfortable speaking with someone through a virtual platform.
  • Discussing feeding history, concerns, strengths & interests – We will discuss your feeding history and what may have led to some of your feeding concerns in the first place. For kids, we will discuss their likes/interests and what they’re good at (it’s not all about stressful eating!). We will discuss what your goals may be since every person’s goals are different (and aren’t just related to food expansion).
  • Discussing your why & the changes you want to make: It’s important to be aware of your “why”. Why do you want to change your eating habits? Maybe you want to socialize more by eating out with friends. Maybe a health concern or maybe you are feeling isolated from others. We will discuss what foods YOU are interested in eating, tasting, or trying and the changes that you want to make.

How do other virtual sessions work?

After our first session together, you will be sent an audio where you can practice getting into a very relaxed, hypnotic state (nothing to do with eating). Once you are comfortable with this, we will begin to work on having you relax or go into a deep, hypnotic state in the following sessions. This is when we will work on feeding concerns and then taste some new foods as you progress!

Then, in the following sessions, we will:

  • Break down any barriers that are and have been inhibiting your ability to try and taste new foods
  • Work on reducing the irrational fears that may be getting in your way of exploring new foods
  • Work on stress and anxiety reducing techniques to help you overcome common food tasting fears, such as vomiting, gagging, etc.
  • Incorporate newly discovered foods into your every day food rotations and routines
  • Decrease stress around going out to eat or eating with family members
  • Learn to celebrate the small wins and victories, an important step in your journey to feeling successful
  • Talk about avenues to new foods, such as food chaining and other small changes you can incorporate into your diet

There are several benefits to virtual sessions, such as reduced travel time, increased flexibility with scheduling, increased opportunities for parent and family coaching, and increased comfortability receiving support while in your home environment.

Interested in virtual therapy and hypnosis sessions for yourself or your child? Contact Kelly and Food 4 Thought Therapy at kelly@food4thoughttherapy.com or check out her website at https://food4thoughttherapy.com to book a free consultation.

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